Re: Is Your Husband a Mule?
I wouldn't make my husband do something he didn't want to himself. It wouldn't last...it would affect him negatively in many ways. I know many women who live so beyond their means that their husbands have no choice but to work over time to cover the extra expenses so much so that these men have no time to sit and enjoy any of it. That's mean and selfish. But sadly I have seen it happen a lot.
There's a difference between helping your spouse realize their true worth and potential which makes them feel good about themselves versus making them suffer in situations out of pressure.