ok heres my situation, iv been married alhamdulilah for 6 months now. i started helping out with the housework right from the beginning its what we've been taught.
my mother in law does everything in the house & from the impression i've got she wants me to be just like her..which isnt a bad thing as shes really lovely mashallah...
I have 2 sister in laws 1 is 22 and the other is going to be 17 soon.. they both are really nice but the problem is they do nothing in the house! i come back from work & go straight to the kitchen with my mil & i make the atta, salan, wash up make them all tea while they watch t.v, even after dinner they go off to their rooms and im left to wash up. i feel really bad for feeling annoyed but its not like their kids. my mil makes them breakfast and brings it in on a tray while they watch t.v- i found it sooo wierd in the beginning because at my mums we all did everything ourselves. i mean they never iron their clothes- mil does that, so when shes doing it i feel bad and take over but now its starting to get to me.. my mil never tells them to do nething, instead does it herself so i obviously get up to help her
ok sorry for ranting but i dont no why its bothering me so much! i dont even mind doing housework, its just the attitude that i find really wrong
rant over
Masha Allah you are married.
Don't worry sis. Some mom spoil their kids and later after shadi they pay the price.
You don't worry and keep doing what you are doing. But don't take girls work in your hand like ironing girls cloth but you can do that if you want to out of love and Allah will give you great reward.
Sis you are so lucky.
My sister use to give her SIL nashta on the tray and she keep galiing my sister continously ask every time cook this for me and cook that for me and my sister use to do like servant with all the galies and use to give her tea on her bed. Use to do whatever her MIL says and they all don't do anything my sister has to do cooking and everything all with 24 hour galian and buduain even galiaan to my parents.
But after sometimes Allah helped them Alhamdolillah it took a long time but now she is happy.
You are lucky sis. You have MIL to help you and no gali 24/7.
Allah will help you Insha Allah. Don't wory time will fly. I'll also pray for you.
Keep your confidence in Allah to help you and he sure will Insha Allah.