My last topic about Husbands marrying again made many women angry so to be politically correct, here is a topic where women can find a lot of room to say their mind and be happy again. LOL
So what do you think, are wives responsible to take care of her husband's old parents and young siblings?
Paki bhai no one get mad here at anyone Masha Allah. Discussion main garma garmi chalti hai per narazgi naheen Masha Allah that is what I noticed.
Zabardast question. Some ppl don't know that Religiously ladies are not bound to take care of In laws. That is good if the are not good for them then she can move. Other wise some ppl make hell for the ladies when living with in laws.
Islamically, no she's not.
Culturally, yes.
Individually, its a mix of both (or neither).
Exactly.
out of kindness she should treat her husbands parents as she would her own
however as Sara516 mentioned above its not compulsory in Islam
Agree.
Agree with Sara but also agree with Mabrook.
How do you deal with a situation where you as a wife are expected to take care of everything and if you don't, your SAAS will burn you alive....LOL
Oh my God I saw they even after doing all the khidmat want' to bur alive. It happened to my sister. We had strong position as she kid do that but her saas Allah maaf karay daily use to say to her son burn her alive by putting her on her jahaiz bed.
My sister use to do all the work for them and they still want to burn her alive on her bed.
You don't have to listen to your parents guys if they say something wrong about your wife just ignore and better tell them what's your wife's rights are.
Islamically not, yeah , we love to qoute a few Mullahs when it suits our purpose.
It amuses me how women beat the islamic drum when it comes to separate house and not taking care of in laws.
Sahi na jub seedhay haath say ghee na niklay to to ungli terhi karni parti hai na.
Koi larki itni budtameez naheen hoti kay wo In Laws ki khidmat na karna chahaay siway chund aik kay jo is tarha ki naheen hoti hon gi. Ub agar khidmat karnay kay baad bhi us ka jeena haram kar dia jaay to kon karay gi ya karna chahay gi.
Jub tuk majboor na ho budtameezi koi insaan bardasht naheen kar sakta.
Agar husbands insaaf karain family aur wife main aur kisi ko kisi kay saath budtamizi na karnay dain to masla hi koi na banay laikin masla to husband kay sulook ki wajah say bunta hai khuwah jis taraf say bhi to zulm honay deta hai.
Husband ka kaam hai balance aur insaaf karna. Ziadti karwanay walay husband ko Allah kay yahan hisaab dena ho ga.