there ain’t many desi girls here in Ireland so there’s a very good chance I’ll be able to bag one eligible bachelor for YOU! 
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Pehlay aap churvaath karay meri behan, I’ll find someone at your wedding 
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Oh no…not at all…u r not being unreasonable at all…its always better to remain on the safe side…rest is upon Allah and our destiny…financial crises are a part of life (or shud i say married life 
) but with mutual understanding and support…the couples come over these little problems in life 
khairzz…best of luck in finding munda panjaban 
You mean a gori chitti larki with long hair I think kala mota tinda aap apni baat ker rahe thay… it’s ok burhapay main chisein bhool jatein hain 
App ko bari aag lagi ha . . . khair ha ? :@:
AAp ko bari fikar lagi hai... khair hai? :@:
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You go girl. 
You go girl. You go girl. You go girl. You go girl.
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It makes sense if you mean financial level in loose terms. But if you're so inflexible that you want him to make precisely 200,000 dollars or more and not a penny less, then well...good luck.
There's no guarantee that a person's income will remain stable. People get raises, but they also get laid off too. You're going to be someone's wife, you need to prepare to be that person's partner even if they go through rough patches.
But if you're saying, look, I come from a white collar family, and I'm not comfortable marrying someone who comes from a poor family and has no job at all, and moreover, doesn't have any ambition or drive to work, then I can understand the turnoff. Plenty of situations where girls are getting married off jaise ke jaise with some ridiculous retard, just so the family can get the girl married. It's not right.
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Everyone is entitled to whatever attributes/qualities he or she may desire in a future spouse. Nothing at all wrong with that. Current and future earning potential can be one of those things. Who cares about what's reasonable and what isn't. That's all subjective anyway. Its about what YOU want. If the other person has a problem with it, then move on. Koi zabardasti thori hai.
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it depends on zabardasti too, the situation, the circumstances..............
zabardasti ya majboori?..
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there is only a 1 line difference in zabardasti and majboori dear
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heres a true story. i know them personally.
my cousin had a rishta from a MIDDLE income guy, and she refused. she wanted to marry someone just as well off as her, or higher, and eventually a rishta came, who were rich, had lots of shops and whatnot, anyway 3 years later.......how lives have changed.
the rich guy she married, not only lost half the money, ( through business failures), god knows what else happened,she doesnt go into detail, but they now live from a 7 bedroom detached house in a 1 bed council flat....
while the middle income guy she rejected, has gone on to become a senior analyst thingy for a big multinational group...earning a high salary with perks and HE STILL IS A LOVELY GUY.....he married his cousin i think, shes a doc and are hapily married with 1 lil gorgeous kid.....
sigh
life.
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the middle income guy, was and still is a nice guy, while the rich guy always was *****, and still is.
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Its not unreasonable, its practical. I strongly encourage it. Even lifestyles moderate, liberal, conservative etc. should be similiar.
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Nadz: It all depends on the person's kismat. If you aren't destined to have something no matter what you do, you can't have it. I know of someone too who married a man 10 years older than her. He had everything. She didn't have to do anything. She wouldn't even go out to buy clothes because the designers would actually send them to her house ( this was in Pak btw, Islamabad not a pind lol). 3 years after her marriage her husband lost all his property he had in Dubai, they had a holiday home there which they lost aswell. It just wasn't in her kismat. His business was really successful before he married her. Now they're only left with their carpet business.
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totally and UTTERLY unreasonable kurrip. Stop it right now. 
It makes sense if you mean financial level in loose terms. But if you're so inflexible that you want him to make precisely 200,000 dollars or more and not a penny less, then well...good luck.
There's no guarantee that a person's income will remain stable. People get raises, but they also get laid off too. You're going to be someone's wife, you need to prepare to be that person's partner even if they go through rough patches.
But if you're saying, look, I come from a white collar family, and I'm not comfortable marrying someone who comes from a poor family and has no job at all, and moreover, doesn't have any ambition or drive to work, then I can understand the turnoff. Plenty of situations where girls are getting married off jaise ke jaise with some ridiculous retard, just so the family can get the girl married. It's not right.
This.
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