Well you’re not wrong, I agree with you. And you’re not being unfair, I mean its good that you’re being honest about it. I want someone who’s educated and has goals because goals mean potential. He can be nothing right now, a recent graduate, but knowing that he’ll work hard to one day have a respectable living is something I value greatly. Then again people have different views about what a respectable living is. If he’s rich because his family is, and he does nothing, then no I would not marry him. If he has worked hard for his money, and gone to the same amount of school I have or more then that’s a big positive. Marrying a guy who is well off is not a bad thing, but marrying a guy only because he’s well off is.