I totally agree, thats why I said with the oppurtunity to expand those comforts. I don’t expect him to be able to proive what my father does now as he’s worked 40 years of hs life to get to where he is now.
I want to marry a man who’s in a field where I know he’s gonna be able to earn more in the future, not one who’s stuck in a dead end job?
And yes I know money isn’t the only thing needed to make a marriage work.