Where I said ‘if I have to’ I was actually trying to make the point that, if my husband wants me to work I will, if he doesn’t I won’t. As I’ll probably be married before I have the chance to complete my education (parents wishes, not mine), I wouldn’t want to waste X amout of his money if ultimately I’m not required to work. Probably should have made that a bit clearer. Also I would like to marry into a joint family system (I live in one now and would love to be able to look after his parents the way my bhabi looks after mine) so I understand my responsibility first and foremost would be to look after my husbands family and the house. And as for star plus, I’ve never watched it in my life
