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Y all mil are like tht y y y ? It has become universal dillemmaa:-(
could you share some entertaining stories about your MIL? please?
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I was talking about my sisters cznz experiences
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your sisters cousins?
arent your sisters cousins your cousins too?
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lol, queerio!
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why are u after me ?
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not even a real issue. i would change the original storyline to include some more masala. like, SIL comes home drunk and beats your hubby up. then MIL makes her pakoray using the oil you were gonna rub into your kaalay ghanay lambay baal.
Oh no no, she uses Dabur ka Amla kesh teyl.
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No, not necessarily. Maybe she means “munh boli behen” and not khoon ka rishta.
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I meant by that sisters,and cousins sorry I m using my cellphone and new to touch screen so....be kind all:-)
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She is her daughter and she cant hide her love for her nor she should. Daughter in laws are not daughters but mother in laws arent mothers either. I am sure when you visit home, your mom will do every little thing for you. I know mine does, from making my chai to letting me sleep a little longer. My mil does the same for her daughter so the universe sort of balances it out. She is your guest and your mil shouldnt even have to tell you to ask her for food wagera, its common courtesy. My sil comes over, I honestly don't think its my shaan ke khilaaf to ask her for chai wagera. I do live with my inlaws I know the little kinks of a joint fam system but if your sister wagera came over, would you really want to tell other ppl in the house to be cordial to them?? No right!! You would assume they would act like hospitable adults. Just try to not let it get to you because your mils reaction to her daughters visit isnt gonna change but it will just make you bitter about something you may have no control over.
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its not that. i always ask sil. its slipped my mind once, because she is over almost daily, why is it an issue,
and no, my mother yes does things for me....but if was there 4 times a week, im sure she wouldnt think twice about telling me to get off my backside and make tea and not expect my bhabi to come and ask me.
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Unless she means cousin-sisters.
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Tht post was made mistakingly I ve mentioned tht before that I was talking about my sisters and cousins experiences :)
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you can't have it both ways......either its SiL's home and she can sit on her behind 4 nights a week and have you wait on her hand and foot or this is your home now and you can make her feel like a mehman by asking her if she wants to eat/drink anything.....
I would recommend that you take ownership.......not only will this help you to fulfill your social obligation towards a visitor in your home but it will make it increasingly obvious that she is taking advantage of your hospitality.
I'd do this if I were you nadzy
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to app kiyon nahi job kar laiti aur apnay bacho ko unkay han chor diay karian. phophee ka bhi haq hota hia bhai kay bachon ko sambhalna
yaar meray abhi bachay nai hein____shadi ko bas dheer saal hua hai
aur job karnay ki bht koshish ki par yahi kaha jata hai k hubby ki salary achi bhali hai to kya zaroorat hai
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This is so wrong on so many levels, I dont know where to start. Kisne di hai unhe itni choti ke wo raat ko bhi apni bachi ko chod jaati hain?
yaar ijazat ka to pata nai_zahir hai un ki nano ka ghar hai
lekin masla yeh hai k ussay sona meri bed peh hota haiphr nano ussay apnay pass kyun nai sulatin??
shadi k dheer saal bad bhi meray aur hubby k darmyaan married couple wala koi relation develop nai ho saka_k koi kisi kisam ki privacy nai milti_aur oper se hubby ka behaviour mujhe zara samaj nai ata_meri to puri life hi confusing haipata nai kon kon si chize theak karni chahiyea aur kahan se
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^ Im feeling erked by that and by OPs story. These double standard expectations in our culture disgust me sometimes. Are you in Pak or somewhere else? Ek aadmi pis raha hain aur MIL ko baas aapni baatee ki fikar hain. Hate to break it to you but they are BOTH her daughters now and this nasty attitude people get to try and control the situation over their sons is just disgusting.
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sorry to say yeh sirf app ki tang dilli ki baat hai. kissi ghar aye hue mehman ka haal poochne se ya paani poochne se koi chote baap ka nhi ho jata. And you cant expect to be treated as princess unless u treat others as princess as well.
she is not a mehmaan, when she comes 3-4 times a week. when my sis came over so often i didnt ask her. i mean she can go to the kitchen and can take what she wants...