Is this Normal?

[NomiCA]

Re: Is this Normal?

@Nisha25

you’re the one generalizing here by calling all men pigs, all i was asking was the reason most all the men here seem to think this behavior is perfectly fine, is it b/c most all men are like this. in no way is it a reason to end the relationship but the only neutral answer i saw from some of the men is the anger management classes or a need for him to improve himself but what part of repeated abuse is ok and totally normal whether it’s a man or a woman doing it?

i didn’t see any poster saying its perfectly fine…all i meant,and probably others, was that its not fine and needs to be addressed and seriously considered…but its not a reason enough to break the rishta as most women are advising her to do…breaking rishta is not something very easy…

all of you can go home and enjoy yourselves but the one whose rishta is broken has to deal with a lot of ‘repercussions’ and issues which nobody is warning her about…

you tell me is it fair to advise her that?? shouldn’t she first think long and hard, discuss with the guy, and assess his commitment and stuff instead of just “break the rishta”??

there is nothing perfect in this world, and if you people keep advising her to ‘break the rishta’ when will it end? you can always find a reason to break a rishta…but its not wise to advise someone that…