Is this necessary

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Tab D awsum thread. ure newly married so these things mst b irritatin i can understand anyway i also HATE, with all my heart the xpectations that paki ppl have of a married woman. so wot if i m married??? i hate wearin gold.. i look sooooo amma in it and its sooo not hot! i cant match it with my clothes… plus i automatically feel old!! another thing i hate just becus i m married i cant wear jeans or tops… makes me feel like a prisoner really. ppl cannot imagine a married woman wearin jeans let alone a mother. but i plan to change that! i m preggo 5 months almost near end and i still wear jeans. to hell with the world. y shud i stop dressin nicely and stylishly cus i m preggo? but trust me i know i m treadin on the wrong path, m sure ppl esp my ILS must b appalled at my dressin i m proud i m able to still fit into nice jeans and wear nice tops without displayin my bump which is a little big now but not that obvious.
i also dun understand the need for us to b mature and all.. y cant i b funny, fun lovin and all? sure marriage is responsibility and that shud b taken seriously but other than that, y cant i dance, make jokes and have fun?? it feels like marriage means suddenly u need to act all aunty, dress like an aunt and feel like an aunt!!

first of all congrats !
secondly i completely agree with you! im currently in the process of making my trousseau, and the input from the elders is most unwanted coz all they can think of is to fill EVERYTHING WITH EMBROIDERY and MORE EMBROIDERY!!! yuckk!! i mean how long can i go around looking like a bride??? plus i hate heavy jewellry too! tbh i LOVE the big artificial earrings that you can buy in every colour for all occasions, why does it have to be gold sets like ammas and daadis with two dozen gold bangles, and a heavy set on the neck! thats horrrible!
Also, im 100% with you on the jeans and tshirt. we may be newly weds, but doesnt mean we should choose pendu over practical!..