Re: ---Is this how Husbands usually behave?
confront the issue, confront him without being too confrontational. he needs to know that this is an issue and be asked to explain himself, and if his explanations are wrong or lame then that needs to be communicated as well. Its his response that is going to determine where his head is and what he is willing to do.
the question is what to do if he does not want to change? does she still do things to please him or does she ignore his demands.
It has been confronted in the past and usually its denial on his part or they other reaction is complete opposite of the prior behaviour.
As of now he doesnt want to change and she doesnt too..they live sort of on the brink already its always till the next.I know they are burning daylight with this approach but as humans with time things like these start looking like the NORM. What do you mean by"the question is what to do if he does not want to change? does she still do things to please him or does she ignore his demands"..are you saying like generally or to this situation.