Re: is this fair on me or am i being unfair?
^Hmmm, I don't think she's unreasonably young for marriage. She's done with her studies. And she has her Masters, so she's in her twenties. Maybe not in her really early twenties, but definitely not a teenager either.
I think she's just nervous about the change that a marriage can bring. And she just has to learn to calm down, breathe, pick and choose her battles wisely, and learn to communicate various angles gently. And it takes time to develop these skills.