Re: is this fair on me or am i being unfair?
When we get worked up over things, you can forget details.
Nadz.......it seems like you love your fiance. After all, you wouldn't be so concerned with the possibility of strangers thinking ill of him. Just don't jump to conclusions. Look at an issue from all sides (including his pov) and discuss with him. It's sweet that he's considerate of your mom's health.