Re: is this fair on me or am i being unfair?
My fiance lives with us, hes my cousin, hes been staying here for a while because his parents in pak, and hes studying and working here. well anyways he wants me to wake up and make him breakfast, but my mum didnt like him sayign that she said we are not married yet and so she should make it and its my job, i know this too so i said this to him that my mum dont like it, and we are not married yet, but he said if you can cook me dinner or make me tea why cant you make me breakfast, whats the diff, and your gna do it after marrige...and that hes goin to work cos of me, ( he staying in uk for a while cos of me we going to live here for a while, and not go pak even though he could get a easy well paid job there, instead hes doing hard work here, only for me. .....i dnt know sometimes i see his point, but also i find it weird.
what do you guys reckon...its only breakfast, but its a issue now.
Seems like you got a lazy one on your hands huh? Living with relatives AND ON TOP OF IT - demanding to be woken up and served!
Doesn't matter that he goes a earns a living. He is staying under your parents roof.
Your mom is RIGHT and it is wierd. Your mom should say "barkudaar - I am not cool with this. aOnce she is your wife, she can do her wifely duties, but in this house until you have a nikkah you are living as cousins"