agree. everyone forgets how hormonal women can get during pregnancy. i know of someone whose husband insisted that they get pregnant right away, and she did, not that she had much choice in the matter, and this was against her mother’s wishes as well. anyways, fast forward a few months later, and the husband is complaining to his saas that please talk to your daughter, she gets very chirchari and doesn’t listen to me etc etc. and all the saas said was i told you so to let some time pass before you decide to get pregnant. the first impressions are everything. now for the rest of his life the husband’s going to think his wife’s an irritable person when the reality is it’s just the hormones talking. if some time had passed, when the new couple had gotten the chance to figure out each other’s personalities, even if the wife turned out to be a major b!tch, he would atleast not complain and think this is what his new wife is like ultimately.