I think your problem is very small then you make it out to be. Think about it for a sec.. jewellery, clothes these are all material stuff, you can buy/get as much or little as you want... try to be happy about life, thank Allah for the gifts that HE has given you .. feed ur hubby and live happy :)
i know this all is material stuff...but she is trying to say is..."when they all buy expnesive cloths for them,..then why they buy some CHEAP stuff for her?? "
its like showing her she is not important for them?? or they thinkk she dont deseve expensive and good cloths??
if u read her post again u will see she said she accept all gift and even wear them..but why they do this with HER shopping,,