Re: Is this anger right for inlaws....?
As someone said above relatioships should not be based on material/wealth, because you will be setting yourself to be doomed. I'm not married, but extended family did used to send clothes and although they were not to my taste, it was the thought/sincerity that counted.
I have made clear to my close family to not buy me anything because we have such different tastes. Many of you ladies who are complaining seem to be independant - therefore just go out buy your own clothes or explain to your family nicely not to buy you anything becasue they do not understand your taste!!!