good observations everyone, I can relate to much that has been said i.e. personal info thrown into one’s face. The most interesting PM I received on this site was from someone who said that he hoped my children who passed away were in hell, pretty classy I must say.
anyways, I would just encourage people to post other things, maybe if they are not sure about posting their own stuff, about other observations or things, we can be a resource for each other if we try.
its not just a question of age, but someone who was a member here, a good yet estranged friend was among those selfless type of people who gave up a lot for the sake of family, yet was being forced to marry against his will, and the question was at what point do the sacrifices end, do people even recognize the sacrifice or they just get used to the individual always putting others wishes and whims first. I know he never asked it here, sometimes i wish I had asked it on his behalf so he could read and get feedback of what ppl were thinking, luckily for once in his life he decided to do what felt right for him, even if it meant some family tensions due to saying no to a cousin etc.
