Is this Abuse or not?

[Sara516]

Re: Is this Abuse or not?

@paki2be

thanks for responses. unfortunately there is no need for further responses unless you all want to keep discussing it just for a debate.. i think i’ll be getting a divorce so

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you’ve thought this through. I know there may be much more to your married life than what you’ve shared here and are comfortable sharing… good luck.

@hazaronkhwahishen

I don’t think anyone here suggested divorce. Personally, I suggested an intervention of some sort. From the looks of your post, your husband has never laid a hand on you. Unless you’re not being completely honest with us (there are other issues you have with him), I don’t understand how you can abandon someone who clearly needs YOUR help. He needs you to go to marriage counseling with him. He needs YOU to get past his anger, and he needs your support as his wife.

Perhaps there is much more to their married life than what’s been shared here and that’s what the OP has decided on, without help from us.

Also, it’s not being dishonest if she hasn’t shared all of it, and you don’t know if they have undergone counselling or not. Not every person who goes for divorce makes the decision out of nowhere, 99% of the time, they have undergone counseling or other options.