Is this Abuse or not?

[hazaronkhwahishen]

Re: Is this Abuse or not?

@Umer

This is one of the problems with society today:Every minor tussle gets blown up into an “abuse case”. Not only is that counterproductive, it also makes it hard for real abuse victims (and there are lots of them unfortunately) to be taken seriously.

Yes, and unfortunately, we ignore the signs of abuse when they first happen. Then, things escalate, and we wonder to ourselves as to how it all could have been prevented. We don’t take the potential victim seriously enough. Our community is not proactive enough from what I have observed.