Is this Abuse or not?

[Khumar]

Re: Is this Abuse or not?

@hazaronkhwahishen

It isn’t really physical abuse, but your husband is at fault here more so, sorry to say.

Why didn’t he just let you pack your bags and go? Why does he feel the need to intervene in that? His intervention caused things to escalate. Sometimes couples just need to cool off, and packing up, and leaving for a few days could be a good idea.

You guys need therapy and** he needs anger management **for sure. It’s not your fault that he got angry.

Just wanted to add, both of you need anger management, not just him. You acted in a very emotional and quiet angry way as well, and what he did was reactionary. Blame in this case goes both ways.