I get confused, because I believe that Islam is a reasonable sensible religion, and things that are prohibited are prohibited for some reason. I dont understand the workarounds though, someone explain me this stuff
M really happy to see this thread cuz it proves that ppl still think about their faith "logically" instead of following it blindly like billions of other muslims :) Jazak Allah khair
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so riddle me this batman...
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Actually i like spiderman better.
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1) sleeping around is bad, it has societal, social, moral implications but then i see guys in beards throw around words like misyar and mutaah. what is that all about and why does it make any sense.
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Just to add, besides "societal, social, moral" sleeping around also has alot of medical disadvantages especially for women. now back to ur questionology, bhai u r smarter than me and u prolly know the answer urself aswell. If Lakir ke Fakir who follow the teachings of their "spiritual teachers" blindly start saying something, it doesn make it a part of islam. The primary source for understanding islam is Quran and Quran alone, anything besides is secondry. Quran talks about adultery at many places, just find any quran search engine and put in query for "adultery" and u will see that Allah at no place mentioned either Muttah or Misyar. Allah told watever is halal or haram. Allah talks in "detail" about marriage in Quran, then y didn Allah mention Misyar or muttah?? as it is also suppose to be a form of marriage or temp marriage?? Allah didn have enough space in Quran or got out of words??. Allah talks about NAMAZ about 67 times, talks about ZAKAT more than 30 times , and u will be surprised to know that Allah talks about marriage at 17 places in Quran and told who should u marry and how should u marry but forgot to mention Misyar and Muttah :S wow, my Lord seems to have a bad memory Naudu billah. so u know where m going right.
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2) some say interest is usury, fine. but then the same people look at 'shariah compliant financing" , explain to me how shriah based financing in essence is any different than a fixed interest mortgage?
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I'd say its the best question in the list. also being a wana be economist i love the topic. Again quran describes Islamic economic system in detail.
these are some examples
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3:130
7:85
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5:90
3:180
25:67
7:31
98:5
64:15
64:16
Believe me there are many ppl in the market who claim to offer u islamic financing or shariah banking but they are just playing with the words like "Mudaraba, Murabaha, Musharaka, Riba, Wakala, Qard, Mudarib, and ijara" and selling u interest based financing and by hearing all those arabic words ppl think its halal lol.
But it doesn mean that shariah financing or banking doesn exist, for sure it does. Wat is interest?? its renting ur money, just like u rent a car or a house, and u have to pay regular fixed payments which is haram in case of money, but not in case of rent a car or rent a house. there are some banks who do partnership with u, for example a house is $100,000, u pay 10,000 and the banks pay 90,000. so u own 10% of the house and the bank owns 90% of the house. and now u sign a contract that u r gona pay the bank 90,000 back within 20 or 25 years without any interest. and now u start living in the house, the issue to consider is that u own 10% and the bank owns 90% but u r living in the house alone and taking advantage of it alone, and bank cant get any benefit cuz renting money in islam is haram, so wat bank would do is to do business they would rent u the 90% of the HOUSE that they own, instead of renting MONEY, and the rent is decided by 6 nuetral real estate brokers. (now keep in mind renting house is halal and renting money is haram, they might sound same but they are 1000% different concepts.)
so the first month u make a monthly payment on the house without interest, say its 1000 dollars and u pay rent for the 90% of the house that bank owns, and just assume its $ 600, so basically u paid bank 1600. now the next month bank doesn own 90% of the house it just owns 89% cuz u made a $1000 payment last month, so this month u would still make $1000 dollars interest free payment but instead of paying $600 rent of 90% of the house u would pay $595 for only 89% of the house and it would be $1595 this month, and next month 1590, and then 1585. so basically ur monthly payments keep on decreasing every month instead of fixed interest payments like conventional banks. and some brother here said that Lariba is doing haram stuff, but according to my limited knowledge what they advertise according to that they are totally halal and i wish they come to canada aswell so that i could get islamic mortgage, but might be he knows something about lariba that i dont know.
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3) if you are not a blood relative you are na mehram and you observe hijab..so how does a simple act of nursing a child make him a 'mehram' its not that his genes changed, its not that he became a blood relative.
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Well wat is Mehram and na mehram? its a simple concept, with mehram u can not marry (besides hubby who becomes mehram after u get married to him) and the hijab rules are soft (its not like there is no hijab) so if a woman who breast feeds u, now u will do hijab infront of him but the hijab would be same as u do infront of ur mother in law and sister in laws, and vice versa, so its not a compicated issue. its just the issue of respect and feelings, if someone bestows u something for any reason thats ur own mother is suppose to give u, then thats na-mehram lady deserves enough respect to be treated like ur mom.
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4) I have read by some that muslims should not dress like nonmuslims and that my jeans and jacket are bad, usually the type of people saying that are wearing the clothes traditional to their geographical area and either were clothes that they and non muslism both wore..and wear like iom middle east, or pakistan and india..
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Kal ko molvi mamu kehain gai ke fork se khana nahi khana, its haram cuz its a western invention :S
woh mulana Kishore Kumar noorani ne fermaya hai na ke
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Logon Ka Kaam Hai Kehna
Chhodo Bekaar Ki Baaton Mein
Kahin Beet Na Jaaye Raina
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Logon Ka Kaam Hai Kehna
ahemz
Islam only require u to wear clothes that are modest, cover ur awrah, and are lose enough not to reveal ur figure, thats it.
Didn mean to make it this long:s sorry but if anything sounds confusing just yell at me and i'll be back here.