is there any space for reconciliation here?

[Iyla]

Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

@multinicked

Her dad called back my dad yesterday and said that he has asked from many people around and confirmed that all gold jewellery,bridal outfits and bari stuff is for the girl and my family should be READY to return the jewellery as well asap. Her dad even gave a written list of jewellery and bari outfits with colours and descriptions with ‘missing things’ labelled on the paper yesterday. My dad clearly told him that the gifts and jewellery are given to a bride/dil who comes to stay at ILs,make relations with them and her husband ; not for the one who steals everything 3rd day of shadi and then creates nothing but distress for the family and then leaves thrice in 3 months time and decides to end it up, so sorry you have to forget about that part ! now this reminds us how badly her father created a fuss at time of nikah and literally came to getting harsh and begging for haq mehr in lacs when we had told them in first ever meeting that we dont write mehr in big amounts (some families do,but then we had to make clear so they shouldnt proceed if this is an issue for them) and they happily said they have no issues and it is just a formality. but at nikah day they made a whole issue and my dad clearly told them not to proceed if they have a problem with this and then they settled at 25k that was paid to them already. soconfused your story just clicked me !! uff tobah..what disturbs me the most is that they are a whole family of highly

**Wow **that is a lot of haq mehr!!!