is there any space for reconciliation here?

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Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

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a female who had married into our family filed for divorce in the UK and the guy in our family let her have everything she asked for …he was quiet about it all didnt protest to anything …when asked why he gave into even her “najayaz” demands…his answer was simple…that at least my conscience is clear that “meri taraf se koi zyadti/zulm nahin huwa…jo bhi huwa hai uski taraf se huwa hai…and i shall face Allah with a clear conscience and the same definitely cannot be said of her”

i find that to be a very healthy attitude…in more ways than one…first u will be 100% that there was no “zyadti” from ur side …second allah does justice … and third this person will be out of ur lives sooner rather than later

Agree, also don’t forget some people don’t have a conscience, so can mess around for ages and ages and not feel a thing.

Even if they take everything they won’t feel any remorse, if you retain it you may do.