is there any space for reconciliation here?

[Paheli00]

Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

@llxxll

i would suggest give them all the flipping bari and jewellery they are demanding back and let them go peacefully…

**no need to be unnecessarily antagonistic, this will only prolong the process and make it uglier than it is
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as for divorce versus khula..why make an issue of that too? at the end of the day the marriage is still gonna end up broken…better not to make a big deal out of whether he will file divorce or she will file khula…get it over with and move on…if she files for a khula so be it but if she asks for a divorce file for a divorce… just get it over with

none of you should let bitterness and anger take control over you it will only serve to harm you in the long run

Agree with the above. Your brother and the rest of the family needs to stop reacting with your emotions and start using your brains.

This marriage is over. Period. The longer your brother CHOOSES to delay signing the final papers to end this marriage…the longer all this drama will go on. And the longer your mom/dad has to deal with this. If not for himself…your brother should at least consider the stress your parents are going through.

Your brother needs to put aside his bitterness and file for divorce asap. Actually, if you’re in the U.S., look at your states requirement for an annulment. Either way, your brother needs to file the papers and get the process started asap.

IF her family insists on getting the clothes/jewelry back in order for her to sign the papers…then just give it to her. I mean…after all…what is your brother going to do with the clothing and jewelry? Give it to his next wife?

At this point…the best is to get this marriage legally over with asap…and move on with everyone’s lives.