is there any space for reconciliation here?

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Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

@Deeba1234

Many women in Pakistan divorcing for ‘fun’?? I find that hard to believe, no matter how wealthy their families might be..

**Can you give some examples? **I’m hoping you’re not thinking anything short of being beaten to a pulp is something a woman should have to put up with..

RV is right.. two of my uncles’ wives are divorcees so I’ve seen first-hand the way more blame is attached to them (one of them was previously married to a physically abusive alcoholic, the other had to put up with ‘just’ verbal abuse (perhaps she is one of those you would think divorced for ‘fun’)..

I think ti’s wrong to genearlize but I do have an example. A close fam friend of ours got married to this girl that was a dr. The family got along perfectly and everything (unfortunately due to some fam situation the wedding was done pretty quickly)…the haq mehr was HUGE (per request of the girls family) and the guy’s side is like okay we’re izzatdaar probably not going to do anything so okay what the heck we’ll write the ridic haq mehar. well…1 month into the marriage the girl started causing problems. Would go to her house for days and not contact anyone in the guys family. Her relationship with her husband was nonexistent. They asked for a divorce one month later…it turned out that her and her sister had done that before…it was some kind of weird way for them to make money or something…i still don’t get it…but they would marry guys that were wealthy and then divorce them , get the haq mehar, and move on…i’m sure this is an example of someonen psychotic but…goes to show, weird things DO happen