Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?
see llxxll, this trend does exist. why is it so hard to believe? fun is not fun as in fun but as in recklessness, as in don’t-care-attitude.
this thread is an example. this girl is on a train wreck, but has little to no remorse or foresight about what’s going on, and what might happen. she is doing it for the heck of it. can you pin-point a single plausible reason for the girl to act the way she is? one?
i am not short of examples but i dont have the energy to post everything here. details are too long and tiresome. one example is in my immediate family, one in extended, another one my close friend, and yet another my best friend’s brother.
the trends for all these cases were so similar: compromising husband doing minnat samajat of his wife to save the marriage but to no avail. and the same recklessness, lack of responsibility, and non-responsiveness on part of the girl.
call it whatever you will, a lot of divorces are happening on petty issues that could otherwise be resolved without much ado. and its nothing to be proud of on part of the women folk.