Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?
The divorce rate is increasing in society in general…we all know that…but why only connect this to women, Nomi? Hmm? Do men not initiate or seek a divorce? And…IF…a guy does seek a divorce…how is he viewed?
There are educated and independent women who are sensible about their marriages…and there are those who aren’t. Some of them may have valid reasons for seeking a divorce…and you can’t just say that all of them do so to “achieve some height or to come across as unstoppable.” Sure, some people my be careless about divorce…but usually it’s not a pleasant situation for either party.
So, you’ve connected a woman getting a divorce to her showing that she’s powerful/unstoppable, what have you. It almost carries a mocking sort of tone. So if it’s a guy who seeks a divorce…what intention would you connect that to? How should that be perceived?