is there any space for reconciliation here?

IceSoul · September 8, 2011, 6:26am

Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

Everything.

we are not preventing it at all. My brother has been through bad stress throughout this marriage and is already done with it. We tried talking to him about a last try for reconciliation but he says I cannot tell you details about her since I want to keep a ‘parda’ of her ill-doings,but I assure you that she doesnt want to come back at all..iss liay aap bhi chup kar jao. we feel really bad for him but MA he is strong and is contented with whatever Allah has decided for him. we cannot force her to live if she doesnt want to ! it’s just that the word ‘divorce’ itself has some type of uncomfortable feeling attached to it and leaves me wondering how easy is it for them to do this with a girl within 4 months of wedding.I really hope this is not their way of dealing things all her life warna iss tarah 6 dafa shadi hogi uski before she gives up ! I feel sorry for them already !

Why? The girl obviously doesn’t’ want to live with your brother and that’s her choice.

Things often don’t work out between couples and sometimes its not anyone’s fault; the husband and wife just aren’t compatible.

Also, I feel that the girl’s story will be very different from yours. Sisters and mothers do seem to always view their son or brother as an angel, cruelly wronged by his wicked wife.