is there any space for reconciliation here?

[IceSoul]

Re: is there any space for reconciliation here?

@multinicked

what does this have to do with ‘joint families’ ? when will people realise that they should go to an orphanage and find a match for their daughters if they dont want them to live in joint families? OR atleast they should talk straight to make it a condition for the marrying their daughter off prior to baat pakki if they see that the guy lives with her mother already ?

we are not preventing it at all. My brother has been through bad stress throughout this marriage and is already done with it. We tried talking to him about a last try for reconciliation but he says I cannot tell you details about her since I want to keep a ‘parda’ of her ill-doings,but I assure you that she doesnt want to come back at all..iss liay aap bhi chup kar jao. we feel really bad for him but MA he is strong and is contented with whatever Allah has decided for him. we cannot force her to live if she doesnt want to ! it’s just that the word ‘divorce’ itself has some type of uncomfortable feeling attached to it and leaves me wondering how easy is it for them to do this with a girl within 4 months of wedding.I really hope this is not their way of dealing things all her life warna iss tarah 6 dafa shadi hogi uski before she gives up ! I feel sorry for them already !

No offense, but if you are half as zealous in real life as you are on GS, then things were bound to go downhill.