is there a future for a 25 year old divorced girl?

[desirekills]

Re: is there a future for a 25 year old divorced girl?

Yeah in the 6years I have known him, me and evry1 else only saw 1 side of him. I saw the real side once I married him and started to live with him. His parents came to meet me and the family, didnt contact us for 2months, then when they came back they wanted the marriage done in 3months.

Inshallah I am going to stay strong, I have to. for my mum and dad if not for any1 else. My cousine has also gone through the same thing, and alhamdulillah shes kum out of it a lot stronger.

@Spiral

Wait.. if you’ve known him for 6 years, how was the marriage rushed. Is that not enough time to get to know someone, specially if they seriously have personality issues.

But to answer your question, to be honest I am firm believer that a girl’s life is extremely hard after a divorce. By that I don’t mean that stay in a marriage this bad. But simply talking about life after divorce… its hard. I have however, started believing that a lot depends on the girl herself how she deals with everything. Some are strong, some are not. You are the person who is going to make a difference. I have two cousins, divorced… it was terrible for them. Both had kids and no where to go. But both were very strong and determined. They changed their whole life. Instead of sulking, they went out worked, supported their kids. After all that was done and over with, never shed a tear. They are both married now and very happy. On the other hand I know someone who got divorced and mannnnnnnnnn that woman went crazy. Doesn’t want to change her life, doesn’t want to get out of her comfort zone to go do something. She is after so many years, still unmarried and still weeping over her past and does nothign to change her present or future.

So my advice would be, if you are considering divorce than be ready for a hard life but one that you can really change with your own determination.