Is the problem really that bad between men and women?

[fat_spartan]

Re: Is the problem really that bad between men and women?

@PyariCgudia

I’m not:
A hijabi
Non-College grad
A stay-at-home (doesn’t matter if I say I’ll stay home for a few months - my inlaws would make sure I give up my job PERIOD - I’ve seen it happen before).

While I’ll admit that for some reason hijabis (statistically) have an easier time getting rishtas. But I have also known some guys who prefer non-hijabis. None of these other points you mentioned have stopped anyone that I know of from getting married.

Income lower than his
education lower than his

Lower income and education than who? I don’t think this is really an issue with anybody I know, and I do know of some couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

dependent
baby-act

I’m not even sure what a baby act is. I don’t know anyone who is looking for someone who is dependent.

size D boobs
perfect figure
hot model type face
great fashion sense

Do you really think most girls who get married have all of that?

Given my poor deconditioned state at the moment, I don’t think I could last in bed for more than 60 seconds. I walk a flight of stairs and I am huffing puffing.

How would he even know about this at the proposal stage?

Socialite
Having family connections, or a dad that can get his sorry arse a job. (Memon culture - often the father in law of the boy will help him get a job, set him up with a business, etc - my dad ain’t doing that).
A huge dowry (Sorry, my parents can’t afford to get themselves a new washing machine)

I don’t know of anybody who depends/depended on his father in law for a job/business.

A career girl willing to saccrifice her job just for him
willing to give up my dreams and ambitions all for him
willing to take the back seat in everything
willing to let his mom walk all over me because she has some inferiority complex and can’t mind her own business
willing to deal with in-law drama

There are men who want stay at home wives and there are also those who want working wives. I know of many women who are working, even some who started after they got married. Whatever your aspirations are, I’m (99%) sure there’s someone who would support you in that.

I mean, I’m sorry, I guess I would make for a difficult bride, and despite the fact that I’d probably make a kick arse wife and mom, I will be the last person to get a proposal becuase I just don’t measure up to qualities that I don’t value in the first place.

Oh well.

Well, I hope something works out for you.