Re: Is the problem really that bad between men and women?
ummm you’re one of the people that asked for advice here, am i wrong?
i would never go by the posts on a forum and assess the person’s personality, who would find their life partner from an online forum. i’ve only seen that work 10% of the time.
some of the people that give advice here, have openly said that sometimes they use their multi nicks to get advice.
getting different viewpoints of an issue,can be helpful, it gives a person something to think about. who in the world would take the advice here word for word and not use their own minds to finally get to a decision??? but for the most part it helps the person discuss the issue and in the process it helps them think through it. the thinking through is therapeutic, did you get that part? even nonvirtual friends/family don’t see all sides of the issue, rarely see the couple in private.
at the end of the day it’s the person that has to reach a decision on their own but its’ not the taking of advice(i would think that doesn’t happen most of the time) as much as the discussing helps and gives a certain peace of mind.