i personally dont like the idea 
its the same story for me.. my fiance’s family has always had the bride and groom have a slow dance at the wedding or valima and no one in my family has ever done that… maybe thats why i dont like the idea but i just think it looks soo awkward and it makes it look like the couple is trying too hard to become westernized…
it looks funny to me, again this is just MY opinion, when a bride in her heavy desi outfit is dancing to a slow american song… and then its awkward if you pick a slow desi song too cuz thats just not our culture, to be dancing arm in arm to slow songs… not sure though, ive heard many people think its cute though..
my fiance literally begged for days and then he tried making me feel bad by saying he’s always imagined that moment where he’d dance with his wife on his wedding…but im not having that.. to me, its more embarassing to be dancing up there in front of hundreds of family, especially since my family’s not used to seeing that…