Talk about overgeneralizing. Never is a strong word to use. It’s culture not Rocket Science, it doesn’t take much to understand it. All you have to do is read, talk to some people, observe a bit and that’s it. Now yeah, I wouldn’t go around aping what everybody else is doing because the rest of the people are doing what they are doing out of habit and conditioning. The same way people do things anywhere, including Pakistan.
I might never adopt the culture, however that does not mean I don’t understand it.