Re: Is something wrong if you dont want to get married?
It is completely ok not to want children or to get married...until you find the "right one". THen you'll want these things. I always disliked children and saw myself as a single professional without kids until I met my soul-mate....then all I wanted was to make children with him. I've seen many Paki gals who were "married off" young and they feel cheated out of life experiences that they could have had. It makes them resentful and bitter. Better to go get your education, see a bit of the world, have the experience of "earning your own living". Yes, its tough to have your children a bit later like I did....I'm ALWAYS exhausted!!! lol!! But its a happy, content exhaustion. I prefer that over being young, energetic and resentful. Just take it slow, examine yourself and decide what you want out of life and GO FOR IT. Its YOUR life and like Cher said, this ISNT a dress rehearsal, its now or never. And listen....yes there can be troubles conceiving if you wait a bit longer, after age 35 especially. But the wonderful world of medical technology most times can resolve that issue. If I had to choose between getting "married off" at 21 without knowing the world and myself or having a taste of the world, feeling total independance and THEN going thru troubles with conception, well I think I did it the right way. IMHO.