Re: Is she wrong?
khudanakawasta if i was in that situation…as much as it would hurt me and kill me i would chose responsibility over love.
**Nia she has, this friend of mine recognises the burden of her responsibility and has no ‘ifs & buts’ about this issue, it is me who is really worried. I wan her to be with her hubby, enjoy life and let the brother take up the responsibility. **
it wont hurt him to come and live few years with me instead of me going away with him. his citizen ship is not going anywhere. his job he will get anotherone…
Nia yet again, we can’t be insensitive to the guy, he won’t be able to find a job here in Pakistan. They have a set standard of life and money is a big issue for this family. I dont know your expereineces but without money, you have no value in Pakistan, nothing is state funded, you have to use your own resources. I guess you already know all this, but believe me money is important if u decide to life in your home country.
i wanna know what she decides eventually.
i would rather take my ami’s duas
**I will let you know but at the moment she wants to be with her mother.
Jazak Allah Khair
Fara
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