Is she serious…. Or telling me something???

[Sara516]

@Yea_Boii

for many men it is. But I don’t believe women are entitled to it. Everyone has some responsiblity in the raltionship - if the man is out working hard and providing food for the family - shouldn’t it be expected that the woman do something as well? perhaps take care of the home? cook?

I am just amazed at at the sense of entitlement i frequently see in girls. It’s not a Bollywood movie for gods sake.

I agree, it goes both ways…but how do you know the girl isn’t into taking care of the home and cooking and raising children?

The way you said it–“just teh ability to bear kids” makes it sound as if you believe having children is doing nothing.

Plus, if you read the first post…he does say she doesnt have baggage, she doesnt expect a very lavish lifestyle , just middle class, and she seems to be a fairy religious and traidtional type (wanting to live with in laws and all). So it doesnt seem like the type of girl you’re talking about…

@kaun

SARA morally and religiously the answer to this question is a yes, but with all the hoopla around women rights and women equality and all the male bashing makes us think otherwise.

yeah but what if the girl isnt into all that and is more traditional? Should she be scrutinized and criticized because other girls around her have their prefernces that dont match hers?

I dont see anything wrong with the demands that a guy be settled. Nobody WANTS a life of struggling and living paycheck to paycheck..its different when the couple once married comes across tough times and how they get through those difficult times.