Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

[Ashy2010]

Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@bebo

I am afraid that your approach is so very wrong when you just assumed scenarios and harbouring negative thoughts.
In whichever family you get married to, you will need to make your own place. Don’t think of it as a competition and make strategies to outshine her. I am sure that you are not the kind who can only look good when other screw up. That family seems easy going and you should not have hard time adjusting. But it would be difficult if you go in with the victimized mentality.

Its just that this bahu has become a role model for me. My mom keeps on giving her example. Its only only marrying into this family. I will be given her example even if I marry into any other family. Its not about competition. Its about seeing someone soo good and then knowing I cannot be as good.

I guess, I am not ready for marriage yet