Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

[Ashy2010]

Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@BarbieCue

Come on now I think we’re being too harsh on Ashy. She just feels intimidated because she understands she is not as efficient at being a home maker as the first bahu is and she does not want to be put down because of that. I think she now understands that as long as she gets rid of the desi mentality and treats the family as her own family that these things won’t matter one bit. Pyar se samjhao na bechari ko

The first bahu’s brought up was very different. I have known even before shadi, she has been given a lot of training from her mother on how to be good in everything. She has been sending food after her engagement to her in-laws. She has been perfect.

My brought up is different. I have been working all my life. Its just that I think I will not fulfil their expectations.

Mujhe mat samjhao. I have left everything to Allah. If its written in my qismat, I will have to improve myself. As my mom says, shadi ki tayari tau ki nahi, shadi kerne chali hai