Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

[Ashy2010]

Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@stoppit

Lol… I love the self righteous bashing, like no one has these kinds of thoughts.

Ashy - the cooking comment - this is what I’m talking about. Why cooking? Coz it’s something she does well right, so you want to show you can do it too? This is the beginning of creating a competition. Learn it because it’s a skill you think you need to have, not for any other reason. And if you don’t need it right now, then why bother? I don’t know if you plan to be a housewife from day one or not, but do things accordingly.

If you are a hard working person who is used to multitasking, this will naturally translate over to home-making when you chose to do it. It really makes no difference to the future if you are not an expert in it right now.

Yeah you are right. I am in the process of changing jobs and securing a very good job in a very good organisation and I would like to take my career seriously. If the family doesn’t like me working, they will not propose. Simple. Why worry? I am willing to quit my work after marriage but if I take up a job now, I will be signing a 3 year contract.

The uncle has been asking me about my work. I think they are having second thoughts about me. The family likes me but they also know I am not someone expert in home-making.

They will be the one to decide whether I can fit in their family or not. Once they make up their mind, only then they will propose. Till now, its been like a step forward and then a step backward