Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

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Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@Ashy2010

I guess you all are right. I am thinking it way too hard. Since I already know the family, I know its dynamics and see myself as not someone who can be as efficient as my focus was mainly on work since young age. But I will have to work hard to adjust into the family, if its in my qismat.

I guess I should start taking cooking classes

I really make dua if its good for me, only then Allah should choose this one for me.

InshaAllah.

This is an issue that most girls face these days… the issue of not being “sugghar” enough… I know I’m too busy to be training as a housewife… my mother tells me she’s never going to come visit my home because it is going to be one of the most unkept homes ever But I never stress over it because (a) I know she’s just joking (she better be! ) and (b) I know I’ll learn when the time comes… responsibility teaches you A LOT! … I had never changed a baby’s nappy in my life until my nephew was born and I had to babysit him… I now know everything there is to know about the little monsters… I can tell when he’s about to poop just by looking at his expressions -_-

It sounds like a sweet family that will understand the fact that you need time and their support to learn how to manage a household… it’s not a big deal at all… just for your own peace of mind though, do mention it to them k I’m going to need some time to learn… I’m sure they’ll be okay with that… Afterall, they are looking for a daughter, not a maid.