Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

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Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@Ashy2010

But what about the second bahu? Won’t second bahu have more difficulty in adjusting to this family since this first bahu has already established standards and since she’s already the favourite of this family? Didn’t first bahu get a very very easy susraal which the second bahu will not have since there is already a bahu to whom this second bahu will be constantly compared?

Yeah, she got very easy susral where she is accepted as daughter instead of DIL.

@Ashy2010

Aray baba… I am not talking about the household chores.

The second bahu will have a competition which first bahu didn’t have. She will be noticed if she hasn’t remember the names of the MIL medicine which first bahu has been doing.

First bahu got a level playing field and she is scoring century. Second bahu will not have this kind of field.

If second bahu take some responsibility and show sincerity toward household chores then she can get a place in in-laws heart.

@jaan_leva

What if FIL introduces 2nd MIL and 2nd bahu can do her seva while 1st one is busy with other MIL? They can partner up taking care of the FIL.

Feminists coming out of the woodwork… RUN!!!

@Ashy2010

I might get their proposal Nothing is sure as of now. But there are chances.

I have known this girl, very sweet natured girl, we get along very well. The way she has been handling the house, I think I am not that efficient. So I am afraid. She has been taking care of all the house, taking care of each family member.

Ashy, what I know from your posts you can do well in any family.