Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?
No one knows about the second bahu. But each and every of her action, decision and behaviour will be compared to the first bahu. E.g. if the second bahu wants to stay separately (as we all on GS agree that separate living is the right of bahus), she will be considered wimp since the first bahu didn’t demand separate living. If the second bahu wants to work, she will not be able to give as much time to the house and she will be compared negatively with the first bahu.
In these terms, I meant the first bahu got a level playing field since no previous standards were set. I really appreciate she has been a very good bahu but won’t her being good will be a problem for the second bahu?