Is marriage a bad idea these days?

[Bobby1]

Re: Is marriage a bad idea these days?

@redvelvet

^Lol. Oh Bob. In the “current century” things are not always much better. There are plenty of men out there that look at the cattle, feel the cattle…ride/use the cattle…then don’t buy the cattle…as they head off toward greener pastures. As the old saying goes, “Why buy the cow when the milk is for free?” And both genders are at fault for this. Yes, one should get to know the person before marrying them…but it doesn’t necessitate “years” to do so and there’s a wisdom in that. Kisi ko jaan’nay k liye saalon ki zaroorat nahi hoti. Koi chorna chahay, to umar bhar guzaar k bhi chor sakta hai.

Yupp!!! just get in the current century, if a woman decides to be with someone of her choice than she is not being used and the relationship is equally enjoyable for her. Marrying a woman is not bestowing favors on her. I know dozens of Safys friends and it seems that many women are the ones breaking up and leaving the guys devastated. In the west research shows women fare better than men after breakup, in La la land where women are supposed to have a keeper they are not raised with skills to be by themselves. Ben also told me that he feels his ex used him. So if you sleep with a stranger after saying qabool and he has bad breath, how will you cope with that for the rest of your life? So putting up with a man with repulsive hygiene might bee considered success..I do know of a person it happened to. Husband smoked and ate gutka and had somewhat crusty teeth, although, kind and religious.