Is marriage a bad idea these days?

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Re: Is marriage a bad idea these days?

@Bobby1

This is why great caution is needed and people here take a few years to decide if they want to get married to that person.

@Bobby1

You have much better odds when you get married to a person you know really well. It is like you can cross a highway blindfolded and maybe you wont get hit but crossing it with open eyes improves your chances. We need to be in the** current century where women are not cattle anymore, cattle you look at and feel and if it looks healthy and has a shiny coat you buy.** A person! you spend the time to know, to learn about and to love before you commit your life to.

^Lol. Oh Bob. In the “current century” things are not always much better. There are plenty of men out there that look at the cattle, feel the cattle…ride/use the cattle…then don’t buy the cattle…as they head off toward greener pastures. As the old saying goes, “Why buy the cow when the milk is for free?” And both genders are at fault for this. Yes, one should get to know the person before marrying them…but it doesn’t necessitate “years” to do so and there’s a wisdom in that. Kisi ko jaan’nay k liye saalon ki zaroorat nahi hoti. Koi chorna chahay, to umar bhar guzaar k bhi chor sakta hai.