Is make up deception?

[third_string]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Actress

So men feel cheated when a woman wears an extra padded bra? they should confirm it if they have fallen for her figure , else it’s a sign of deception. Similarly girls should ask men to prove his size so she doesn’t feel cheated later. Isn’t marriage primarily about making out? In pakistan many marriages end up because girls find out later that their men have buried tools. That’s deception. Not knowing that your husband and his family will act mentally challenged right after the marriage, thats deception.

About make up, subtle enhancements are one thing, but changing yourself drastically to look the way your fav celebrity looks reveals ones needless insecurity that should be worked on.

What are these buried tool you speak of lol? We’re all adults, I think you meant penis size. I think you’re exaggerating cause divorces are very rare in the paki community, most people have lots of kids. If size is important to you then you should bring it up during your rishta search lol.

[Reha]

Re: Is make up deception?

@third_string

What are these buried tool you speak of lol? We’re all adults, I think you meant penis size. I think you’re exaggerating cause divorces are very rare in the paki community, most people have lots of kids. If size is important to you then you should bring it up during your rishta search lol.

Divorce is definitely not rare in the Pakistani community anymore

[Actress]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Pakistani_Prince

So you tryna say western women do not walk out of marriage if their guys have buried tool?

They dont marry impotent guys. In pakistan you wouldn’t get to know before marriage.

[Pakistani_Prince]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Actress

They dont marry impotent guys. In pakistan you wouldn’t get to know before marriage.

Oh i see..

[Actress]

Re: Is make up deception?

@third_string

What are these buried tool you speak of lol? We’re all adults, I think you meant penis size. I think you’re exaggerating cause divorces are very rare in the paki community, most people have lots of kids. If size is important to you then you should bring it up during your rishta search lol.

I didnt know you are so proud to have a penis and feel like announcing it on public forum. Yes as reha has said things have changed in Pakistan. Divorces arent rare. Its very important to me that my potential husband doesnt turn out to be impotent or gay. But How do we confirm that before marrying him in Pakistan? You leave a male cousin with him alone for a day?

[third_string]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Reha

Divorce is definitely not rare in the Pakistani community anymore

Aight it isn’t rare but it’s not common, I can count the number of divorced peeps i know on one hand so far and I don’t think any of the divorces happened cause some woman thinks her husbands dick isn’t big enough lol.

[third_string]

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@Actress

I didnt know you are so proud to have a penis and feel like announcing it on public forum. Yes as reha has said things have changed in Pakistan. Divorces arent rare. Its very important to me that my potential husband doesnt turn out to be impotent or gay. But How do we confirm that before marrying him in Pakistan? You leave a male cousin with him alone for a day?

You’re the one that brought it up lol, I just used an anatomical term, grow up lulz.

[third_string]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Actress

I didnt know you are so proud to have a penis and feel like announcing it on public forum. Yes as reha has said things have changed in Pakistan. Divorces arent rare. Its very important to me that my potential husband doesnt turn out to be impotent or gay. But How do we confirm that before marrying him in Pakistan? You leave a male cousin with him alone for a day?

If size is so important to you then you might have to give up celibacy. The only way you will know the truth is if you hit 4th base with a prospect.

[redvelvet]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Actress

I didnt know you are so proud to have a penis and feel like announcing it on public forum. Yes as reha has said things have changed in Pakistan. Divorces arent rare. Its very important to me that my potential husband doesnt turn out to be impotent or gay. But How do we confirm that before marrying him in Pakistan? You leave a male cousin with him alone for a day?

I feel like you’re going off on unnecessary tangents. You’re the one that brought up the question of whether potential spouses should be shown actual sizes of body parts before marriage. By definition a deception is to deliberately portray something as being very different from what it actually is. By that definition, a push-up bra is a deception. Whether that cover is blown sooner or later doesn’t change the fact that it is a deception. As for other examples you have given such as…in-laws turning out mentally challenged after the wedding…well, that’s a complex question. Both attitudes and state of mind change and relationships are very complex; it’s easy for many of us to believe that someone who doesn’t agree with us has a mental impairment. But for a minute, let’s view your argument in simplistic terms. Let’s say that in-laws do turn out markedly different from how they portrayed themselves before marriage…then yes…it’s a deception. So, what? Are you trying to make the point that this is a much more serious deception than make up? Okay, sure. I can agree with that. But with many things in life, there is a spectrum. Some deceptions are serious…some are even cruel…but diverting our attention toward the bigger issues still doesn’t make the much “lesser” things a “non”–deception. It just becomes a contest of sorts on what is more or less or of the same quality:…deception.

[Reha]

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@third_string

Aight it isn’t rare but it’s not common, I can count the number of divorced peeps i know on one hand so far and I don’t think any of the divorces happened cause some woman thinks her husbands dick isn’t big enough lol.

I know quite a few. I’ve been divorced and before that I knew exactly one person who had been divorced and she was my close friend. When you go through one, you start to meet and see more of your kind since they’re usually laying low from society due to their divorced status. I actually know quite a few men and women.

[third_string]

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@Reha

I know quite a few. I’ve been divorced and before that I knew exactly one person who had been divorced and she was my close friend. When you go through one, you start to meet and see more of your kind since they’re usually laying low from society due to their divorced status. I actually know quite a few men and women.

Yeah there’s a growing up number of divorced brown peeps however most of the marriages failed cause of infidelity - like in 90% of cases and the rest cause of incompatibility.

[Pakistani_Prince]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Reha

I know quite a few. I’ve been divorced and before that I knew exactly one person who had been divorced and she was my close friend. When you go through one, you start to meet and see more of your kind since they’re usually laying low from society due to their divorced status. I actually know quite a few men and women.

Well you were born and raised in US., so you do not fully fit into this categury.

[Iconoclast]

Re: Is make up deception?

This forum is teaming with dik and divorce experts.

[Pakistani_Prince]

Re: Is make up deception?

@Iconoclast

This forum is teaming with dik and divorce experts.

Things are heating up.. And i like it.

[IsaidwhatIsaid]

Re: Is make up deception?

I’m still screeching at how long this dumb ass topic has gotten. Make up that seriously change’s a woman’s face takes some serious skill and expertise that most women don’t have. I really don’t think the Y-chromosome is defective enough to where males can be “deceived” by obvious paint on a woman’s face (I’m guessing by this topic it might be lmao). Also, wouldn’t deception occur where the woman pretended that her made up face is her natural face? Clearly it isn’t and no woman is going to argue that her spider lashes and green eyeshadow are natural parts of her face. Some chick pretending to be in love with you is deception. Some chick wearing obvious makeup is not deceiving you because the mere presence of makeup should tell you that is not her natural face.

I really truly honestly believe that some of you live in an alternate reality or are a bunch of shut-ins (the “meninists” that OP mentioned are).

[NavAhmed]

Re: Is make up deception?

If I could I will nominate ppl like Stringy, Reha or RV for poster of the year award, not someone who starts lame game threads and posts touchy feely sweet things and avoids discussing any difficult topics or engage in healthy debates. And i am not referring to PP

[Reha]

Re: Is make up deception?

@third_string

Yeah there’s a growing up number of divorced brown peeps however most of the marriages failed cause of infidelity - like in 90% of cases and the rest cause of incompatibility.

Again, huge generalization there.

Most DESI marriages fail because of lack of understanding and women getting tired of being trampled on. Infidelity is also a big one but definitely not 90%.

Most women who pluck up the guts to walk out do it because they start to realize they can do better than this. Marriage is not meant to be lived in misery and the day a woman gets that, she leaves.

The situation is VERY different now. Marriage was a means of survival for women before. Where else would they go? Who would keep them? They didn’t work so were considered a liability and another mouth to feed. The stress of a single daughter still at home was more than parents could bear so many times women just married to get it over with. Well, now she doesn’t have to be a liability and she can feed herself. So she leaves. The increase is due to the simple fact that women have changed and men have not.

Men today still expect a woman to be MORE invested in a marriage than them. Women today expect men to be JUST AS invested as them.

[third_string]

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@Reha

Again, huge generalization there.

Most DESI marriages fail because of lack of understanding and women getting tired of being trampled on. Infidelity is also a big one but definitely not 90%.

Most women who pluck up the guts to walk out do it because they start to realize they can do better than this. Marriage is not meant to be lived in misery and the day a woman gets that, she leaves.

The situation is VERY different now. Marriage was a means of survival for women before. Where else would they go? Who would keep them? They didn’t work so were considered a liability and another mouth to feed. The stress of a single daughter still at home was more than parents could bear so many times women just married to get it over with. Well, now she doesn’t have to be a liability and she can feed herself. So she leaves. The increase is due to the simple fact that women have changed and men have not.

Men today still expect a woman to be MORE invested in a marriage than them. Women today expect men to be JUST AS invested as them.

I don’t think women have changed, female hypergamy has remained the same.

[Reha]

Re: Is make up deception?

@third_string

I don’t think women have changed, female hypergamy has remained the same.

That is an entirely different topic.

So in your opinion, women have not evolved at all in the past 100 years?

The root cause of divorce is lack of compromise on a woman’s part. She refuses to accept things as her fate now.

[NomiCA]

Re: Is make up deception?

@aqua70

That literally makes zero sense. How is makeup equivalent to job and pay? Get back at these womaanzzz, put on makeup to enhance your features too, win/win.

talking in context of matchmaking etc…where people are being judged and decisions are being etc…

while we are at it…push up bra and blush on and eyelashes and spanx…are all not related either …