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..ok nvm!
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so, I assume we are all for home schooling as well? :)
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^ No freakin’ way. 
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^ Sorry but I think this is one instance in which you are being unreasonable and not understanding the point. Nobody is talking about leaving their children with strangers but rather having housekeepers to take care of hte household chores so that the mothers can have some free time to spend w/ their children and husbands.
sara.....did you read the initial post...
it is talking about leaving the children with a nanny as well.
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the question of this thread is....is maid a better choice.
The thread starter is referring to a maid as a caregiver as well as a person who cleans.
now...is a "maid" a better choice for your child ? NO...and i think we ALL know that.
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sara.....did you read the initial post...
it is talking about leaving the children with a nanny as well.
yeah but I think most ppl here, giving their experiences as well, are talking abt maid for housework..not childcare.
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yeah but I think most ppl here, giving their experiences as well, are talking abt maid for housework..not childcare.
oh ok....housework? you bet I would!! It's dumb not 2 unless of course you cant afford it.
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Not everyone is able to leave/quit their jobs soon as they have children. And no not everyone is simply persuing their career and leaving behind children. Some people need both husband/wife to work to support the household, to put food on the table..pay the bills etc. Not everyone has the luxury to quit work and raise a child fulltime. And I think even if you can afford to stay home with kids full time, that mother needs a break sometimes. Im sure she needs a breath of fresh air in some activity/hobby/outing by herself. Having a baby-sitter for a few hours isn't bad.
And STP, not all maids/helpers are bad people. I know I still respect the lady who took care of me when I was little. My mom had to work so someone had to watch me, but she was a good person as well, and really took care of me m& my brother. To this day we still see her and respect her.