is love a true feeling or just a need of the circumstances

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lol.. love.. lol

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tau kia tumharay khayal main forever single concept sahi hai :confused: Why live for yourself, why not get marreid and give happines to a girl??? any problems here??

you said, girls are getting married for money to older ungly guys. Do you wanna say cause they are ugly or old thatswhy they cannot be considered as happy couple :konfused:

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so whts da end of love gal or guy commiting sucide or leave their parents alone?

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my friend m talking about da love between gf n bf not about da other relations dats just wht u think but m talking about da majority

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Imran bhai I am a girl:rolleyes: so I am not gonna marry a girl:o
but maybe a man one day…
happy couples? some for sure…but all I really doubt it, I saw some here in India, maybe arranged marriage and those pretty gals married to older ugly but rich guys, looked really sad…:frowning:

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sorry for you DM, but gf bf relationships are not pure love most of the time…that is why it is not recommended for us muslims…and as i want to feel only pure love and stay happy, then I stay away from gf/bf relationships…

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dats wht m sayin ke gf/bf love iz just a time pass nofin else
yes pure love iz between mom/son bro/sis father/son n many other

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NOOOO…I said pure love can exist btw people without blood relation and now I add without sex realtions too! I mean I can feel love:blush: for someone:blush: who I am not gf of, and who is not my bf…just because pure love has no expectations…

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i m only against gf/bf love nofin else :stuck_out_tongue:

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^^so we agree

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ok larai khutam :hug:

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sorry i don’t understand:(

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He means, end of fighting

Larai = Fight, Fighting
Khatam/Khutum = End

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thanx maddy!!!salaam! how are you?

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Wasalaam .. I’m buried with work :crying:

I have a big big report to write which I’m really far behind on. AND i have a meeting with my manager in 6 hours where I have to update him on the report :frowning:

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maddy :( bechara!!

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welll as a female i know i would never let my man leave his parents alone he is there eldest son.. and if you really love the person u love..u would only fall in love if you the person is capable of your love and by that i mean for your parents love as well. I would never be with a guy i know wont be accepted by my parents.. you know it all works together and if it really comes down to it.. yes suicide has been a case and so has run away

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so, you guys sayin b/f, g/f relations are totally based on other reasons expect love?? Doesn’t sound convincing to me. Well, I think blindly merrying someone is just rediculous you should somehow know about that person before marriage and b/f, g/f stuff is one form of knowing someone. :rolleyes:

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well why not being simply friends before marriage?? i mean bf/gf relationship is too ambiguous, just look at the west…here people are bf/gf without intending to marry, if you are serious about marriage let the girl know and when you know her enough marry instead of dating!..dating sux, really!

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^ yes, I agree friendship is another form of knowing people, infact more civilized one.
But sometimes you feel like U need to be romantic or even sensual, in such circumstances, wouldn't it be better to establish a romantic relationship instead finding other means.

I am not talking about changing partners here, I am talking about sticking to one person you think could well be your future partner, try to know her/him, if thing turn out as expected and both of you are compatible than just hookup.

Yes, I can understand the complications attached with b/f, g/f relationship but sometimes it does the trick!