Re: Is "Izzat" going to become antiquated
What you love and cherish, you will always keep from the prying eyes of the world...
Keep her locked up just in case THE WIFE finds someone to love her more. Not the husband. The wife.
You define intimacy as "knowing your wife was made for you alone". Sure the husband needs security and assurance his wife's not a broad - but where is the wife's say in this? Why cant she keep her husband at home all day to make sure he's not having sex with other girls and boys (yes muslim men are gay too). Isnt the wife entitled to the same security and pleasure of an intimate relationship? Silly me. You because you believe a Muslim woman is a sex crazed whore. The man is not. How dare the woman demand her husband stay at home.
You are right when you say it's pshycological. The reasoning behind keeping your wife at home is not about protecting her but rather protecting the weak man from having her run off if she comes accross a better man. A man she loves more. A man who loves her more. A relationship in which there is more intimacy.
What you love, cherish and trust - you will willingly let out of your sight. That is, unless you think women are like dogs who need leashes around their neck. Wouldnt want to have your dog run away now, would you Lajawab?